sneekrealm
1 month ago
"hungrily turning over all these pieces and suddenly you're 3 hours off a planned shower i'm 3 hours off planned sleep" type beat, as i have said to them. from experience, even, with all the yapping (in dms, for time being)
arlita
1 month ago
@sneekrealm omg that's so wonderful and beautiful?? ToT ToT i'm elated about this omg!! yey <3
arlita
1 month ago
srry for the long ass link on this screenshot but it's important and has to do with bagheera https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3e3edf4e7dc33df9a5cfdc555562a25/652c201b25b054b9-c3/s1280x1920/4fd45e3e1512d4cac0698bb6d53e7fa97edf729f.png
arlita
1 month ago
on the other hand i am 31 so ud think id have a thicker skin when i run into meanies online LMAO
Love your "you're just a girl" page. I've always hated that demeaning and infantilizing "I'm just a girl" phrase that gets thrown around recklessly; thank you for recontextualising it in a more helpful way :D
@wriorango thank u!!^_^
the page scratches my brain in an interesting(compliment!) way as someone who a friend of mine has said to be the least cis cis person they know (fine with being called a girl or aunt [in estonian a go-to word for referring to non-child fem people], but weirded out when called a woman or lady. too busy experiencing life to care to unpack the genderfeelings atm)
"the good fight is body autonomy and equality for everyone." real af
@sneekrealm ooh yes i really like that compliment, that's so validating of the things/goals i had in mind as i was writing!