if its stuff for like, discord, u have to frequent a place enough that ppl get used to u existing and occasionally chime in on a topic u know about. u can just jump in vc's and not even do anything in there tbh. i used to just screenshare myself drawing or playing a game, ppl will put it on for background noise. the point is ppl getting used to you being there at first. getting over the anxiety of existing is hard.
lowkey jealous of all those ppl playing friendslop games.. LET ME IN LET ME IN
if its stuff for like, discord, u have to frequent a place enough that ppl get used to u existing and occasionally chime in on a topic u know about. u can just jump in vc's and not even do anything in there tbh. i used to just screenshare myself drawing or playing a game, ppl will put it on for background noise. the point is ppl getting used to you being there at first. getting over the anxiety of existing is hard.
also apologies if you weren't asking for actual advice lol im not even social myself its just a matter of getting in the right crowd
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